DEBATE
FOR THE TOPIC
A women! She is a daughter, wife and a mother, the three backbones of a family. In India, people think that women are weak and can’t do anything over this I just want to give my opinion that
‘If a women can bear the pain while giving birth to a child then there is nothing impossible for a women’
In Indian society, it is assumed that if a men is working then what is the need of a women to work? ’ Women deserve equal rights to men. I don’t see any losses in women working after marriage, in fact it will bring more benefits to the economic condition of the family. Women are independently strong and have the ability and strength to work. We are living in a developing country and in 21st century where mostly everything is fair enough for both the genders then why to differentiate them on the basis of work?
Now the only question arising against the women working is that, “who will look after the children if the women started working after marriage?” So basically according to this women is only there to take care of the children and do the household chores after marriage. If a women can get paternity leave then why not a men? OH! Haa they’ll not be allowed because they are a “MEN”… correct! No it’s just that it all starts from the social stigma and pressure that a men will be sitting at home. In India, if a women can be with the child with her paternity leave for the first 3-4 years for his/ her growing age then father is also equally responsible for the further growth of the child. The child needs the father as well in his growing age.
So dear men, if you think that “you earn enough that is why the wife don’t need to work”. Then let me make a thing clear that it’s not about earning money it’s all about financial independence of the women. She has the right to work anytime, anywhere and with anyone. And if you think that independent women is leading to rise of divorce cases in India, and as per my assumption it’s good for women because they can finally break out of abusive marriages. And dear men, if you think that divorces are bad for children then abusive marriages are worse for them.
AGAINST THE TOPIC
The only thing that can oppose the topic is that
“If the women started working after marriage then who will look after the household and children?”
This is true that a women has the right to do everything in India but if she starts working then the whole scenario will be different. If she is working then you need to hire a maid to look after the household work (and the children). And in India if you hire a maid in some metropolitan cities they will easily charge some Rs10000-15000. And beside the children is spending their whole day with an outsider. You even don’t know how reliable the person is and you believe in them and leave your children with them for a whole day. Small children always need their parents around because some children who do not get the attention of their parents in early days are tend to get frustrated and sad. A child always needs a parent to look after them specially the mother.
In India, if a women ties herself with another person and also own a child of her own blood and flesh then you as a women is no more independent it is just selfishness. You cannot leave your house or your child who is just growing up with some unknown person whom you call as the “maid”.
If you are a married women in India and also own a child then you don’t expect your in-laws to take care of the child for a whole day just because the mother is working out. If the children are grown up and grown up and goes to school then there will be no one to give them food and take care of them after coming from school.
A working women is expected to work for a one whole day and come back in the evening and do the left out household work and then she will be tired by working for whole day and after all these she’ll go and sleep and end her day. In all these there is no time for her to spend some time with her family, ask her children about their studies and teach them moral values. Family and households are the main jobs of a women after marriage, she will not be able to hold all these at once. If she has the house and a child then it’s her duty to look after them.
This Blog Post is writtern by Kumud.







